{"id":1147,"date":"2013-09-10T18:30:30","date_gmt":"2013-09-11T00:30:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jaygoodman.com\/?p=1147"},"modified":"2021-12-21T13:51:38","modified_gmt":"2021-12-21T20:51:38","slug":"parental-alienation-in-child-custody-disputes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jaygoodman.com\/?p=1147","title":{"rendered":"Parental Alienation in Child Custody Disputes"},"content":{"rendered":"<p dir=\"ltr\" id=\"docs-internal-guid-242d0f1b-0a47-18d5-27bd-11f80b074556\"><a href=\"https:\/\/jaygoodman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/Parental-Alienation-in-Child-Custody-Disputes.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-1148 alignleft\" alt=\"Parental Alienation in Child Custody Disputes\" src=\"https:\/\/jaygoodman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/Parental-Alienation-in-Child-Custody-Disputes-200x300.jpg\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/jaygoodman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/Parental-Alienation-in-Child-Custody-Disputes-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/jaygoodman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/Parental-Alienation-in-Child-Custody-Disputes.jpg 564w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/><\/a>While the adversarial process is sometimes a necessary component of child custody disputes in divorce and paternity actions, children generally benefit from the ability of parents to reach amicable co-parenting agreements. \u00a0When parents cannot cooperate in custody cases, this can have a negative impact on minor children. \u00a0If either parent openly disparages the other parent or attempts to create negative feelings toward the other parent, the child may experience a psychological condition referred to by mental health professionals as \u201cparental alienation syndrome.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Because attempts by one parent to alienate minor children can have such a detrimental impact on kids and the parent-child relationship, family law judges typically consider such conduct when fashioning timeshare and custody arrangements. \u00a0We have provided some key information for parents about parental alienation syndrome that was discussed in a recent article in <a href=\"http:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Psychology Today<\/span>.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Parental alienation syndrome is caused by parents who elect not to shield their children from disputes over parental issues and essentially force kids to take sides. \u00a0Sometimes parental alienation can be so extreme that a custodial parent manipulates the child into disliking the other parent or into refusing to visit and spend time with the other parent. \u00a0As <a href=\"http:\/\/www.edwardkruk.com\/\">Edward Kruk, Ph.D. , <\/a>explains, \u201cParental alienation involves the \u2018programming\u2019 of a child by one parent to denigrate the \u2018targeted\u2019 parent, in an effort to undermine and interfere with the child\u2019s relationship with that parent, and is often a sign of a parent\u2019s inability to separate from the couple conflict and focus on the need of the child.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Although parental alienation can involve many forms of conduct, it is far more common in custody disputes than many parents assume. \u00a0One study found that approximately 11-15 percent of divorces involving children include a judicial finding of parental alienation by one of the parents. \u00a0The authors of the study suggest that this dramatically understates the prevalence of conduct amounting to parental alienation because judges may not make a formal finding on the record of this type of inappropriate conduct, and sometimes the conduct is never exposed. \u00a0Common forms of conduct by an offending parent that can damage the child\u2019s relationship with the other parent include:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li dir=\"ltr\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Inappropriately limiting or restricting contact with the other parent<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li dir=\"ltr\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Forcing children to choose sides by threatening to withhold affection<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li dir=\"ltr\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Suggesting the other parent is dangerous or unsafe without a justifiable basis<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li dir=\"ltr\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Minimizing the importance of contact with the extended family of the other parent (e.g. grandparents)<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li dir=\"ltr\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Forbidding pictures or discussions that involve the other parent<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li dir=\"ltr\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Making disparaging comments about the other parent in the child\u2019s presence<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">These are just a few examples of the types of conduct by the party to a child custody dispute that can damage a child\u2019s relationship with the other parent. \u00a0Parental alienation syndrome not only harms the child\u2019s relationship with the other parent but also can cause other significant damage to the child. \u00a0The Psychology Today article indicates that multiple studies have shown these long-term effects include:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li dir=\"ltr\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Self-hatred<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li dir=\"ltr\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Lack of attachment toward their own children<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li dir=\"ltr\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Poor self esteem<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li dir=\"ltr\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Substance abuse<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li dir=\"ltr\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Depression<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li dir=\"ltr\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Inability to trust others<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h4><a title=\"How an Attorney Can Make a Difference in a New Mexico Child Support Case\" href=\"https:\/\/jaygoodman.com\/how-an-attorney-can-make-a-difference-in-a-mexico-child-support-case\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><strong>How an Attorney Can Make a Difference in a <\/strong><\/span><\/a><br \/>\n<a title=\"How an Attorney Can Make a Difference in a New Mexico Child Support Case\" href=\"https:\/\/jaygoodman.com\/how-an-attorney-can-make-a-difference-in-a-mexico-child-support-case\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><strong> New Mexico Child Support Case<\/strong><\/span><\/a><\/h4>\n<p>The above information is provided to illustrate general principles of law and should not be interpreted as a specific legal opinion on an individual case. You should contact experienced legal counsel to get specific legal advice that is based upon your specific circumstances.<\/p>\n<p>If you are involved in a New Mexico child custody dispute and worried about attempts by the other parent to damage your relationship with your children, our child custody law firm invites you to sit down with us so that we can discuss your situation. \u00a0The Jay Goodman &amp; Associates offers a free consultation in our centrally located offices in Santa Fe and Albuquerque so that we can discuss your alternatives. \u00a0Call us today to schedule your free consultation at (505) 989-8117 to learn about your rights and options.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>While the adversarial process is sometimes a necessary component of child custody disputes in divorce and paternity actions, children generally benefit from the ability of parents to reach amicable co-parenting agreements. \u00a0When parents cannot cooperate in custody cases, this 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